yolo23's Blog

So we often have these issues that come up, he has OCD, wants everything to be done right now, right here, get off your ass drop whatever your doing and help me... not... you see I enjoy taking the half hour to wake up , enjoying my coffee and cuddling with my ferrets... alright so I do not want to get up and clean the kitchen and floors and wash the clothes and make the bed and clean out the bathrooms and vacum... thank god I only have to deal with this one week out of the month BUT he will rag on me when I am trying to clean when he isnt here and gets mad if I dont text back right away... and then he will come home for a hour to "surprise" me and see if the house is clean, 90% of the time I clue in that he is on his way home so I will trash the house to piss him off, 10% of the time i dont clue in that he is comming home i didnt bother cleaning the house that day... I have two large dogs, two cats, two ferrets, and they are all under the age of 2, its like a bunch of kids running around, so yes, I have to clean the house EVERYDAY, im not bitching, I dont mind it, except dishes, worse thing ever.... but I do them... he sits in his truck all day and watches people, I cook, clean, feed animals, have to go grocery shopping, running around to pay bills, keep up with bathing the dogs, cleaning ferret cages out EVERYDAY which takes about 2 hours, and I am only 18... I went from drinking every night and sleeping all day to having insomnia and cleaning all day every day... i think im doing alright... when will he think I am too? never..

I was never told that life was easy, I was never told it was hard, before I knew it I was in a relationship, but like every other girl my age I was not out dating all the "hot" highschool boys, or collage men... no I was with a guy that was 42...

Yes, we are 25 years apart, met 2 years ago, fell "in love"..


I am creating this for all the questions about our realtionship, and for me to be honest to the fullest extent.